[sil-inst-opt] Improve performance of InstModCallbacks by eliminating indirect call along default callback path.

Specifically before this PR, if a caller did not customize a specific callback
of InstModCallbacks, we would store a static default std::function into
InstModCallbacks. This means that we always would have an indirect jump. That is
unfortunate since this code is often called in loops.

In this PR, I eliminate this problem by:

1. I made all of the actual callback std::function in InstModCallback private
   and gave them a "Func" postfix (e.x.: deleteInst -> deleteInstFunc).

2. I created public methods with the old callback names to actually call the
   callbacks. This ensured that as long as we are not escaping callbacks from
   InstModCallback, this PR would not result in the need for any source changes
   since we are changing a call of a std::function field to a call to a method.

3. I changed all of the places that were escaping inst mod's callbacks to take
   an InstModCallback. We shouldn't be doing that anyway.

4. I changed the default value of each callback in InstModCallbacks to be a
   nullptr and changed the public helper methods to check if a callback is
   null. If the callback is not null, it is called, otherwise the getter falls
   back to an inline default implementation of the operation.

All together this means that the cost of a plain InstModCallback is reduced and
one pays an indirect function cost price as one customizes it further which is
better scalability.

P.S. as a little extra thing, I added a madeChange field onto the
InstModCallback. Now that we have the helpers calling the callbacks, I can
easily insert instrumentation like this, allowing for users to pass in
InstModCallback and see if anything was RAUWed without needing to specify a
callback.

lib/SILOptimizer/Mandatory/DefiniteInitialization.cpp

@@ -866,7 +866,8 @@ static void replaceValueMetatypeInstWithMetatypeArgument(
         valueMetatype->getLoc(), metatypeArgument,
         valueMetatype->getType());
   }
-  replaceAllSimplifiedUsesAndErase(valueMetatype, metatypeArgument);
+  InstModCallbacks callbacks;
+  replaceAllSimplifiedUsesAndErase(valueMetatype, metatypeArgument, callbacks);
 }
 
 void LifetimeChecker::handleLoadForTypeOfSelfUse(DIMemoryUse &Use) {