This replaces a number of `#include`-s like this:
```
#include "../../../stdlib/public/SwiftShims/Visibility.h"
```
with this:
```
#include "swift/shims/Visibility.h"
```
This is needed to allow SwiftCompilerSources to use C++ headers which include SwiftShims headers. Currently trying to do that results in errors:
```
swift/swift/include/swift/Demangling/../../../stdlib/public/SwiftShims/module.modulemap:1:8: error: redefinition of module 'SwiftShims'
module SwiftShims {
^
Builds.noindex/swift/swift/bootstrapping0/lib/swift/shims/module.modulemap:1:8: note: previously defined here
module SwiftShims {
^
```
This happens because the headers in both the source dir and the build dir refer to SwiftShims headers by relative path, and both the source root and the build root contain SwiftShims headers (which are equivalent, but since they are located in different dirs, Clang treats them as different modules).
I had optimistically written the code here optimistically hoping #7837 would land in time for me to merge, but that didn't happen, so adjust some things to match the current 12-byte object header size on 32-bit, and introduce some ABI constants for the expected 32- and 64-bit object header sizes we can assert against so that we have some robustness when it eventually changes again. Implements rdar://problem/31768303.
