Previously, `SwiftASTManager` and `SlowRequestSimulator` maintained their own list of in-progress cancellation tokens. With code completion cancellation coming up, there would need to be yet another place to track in-progress requests, so let’s centralize it.
While at it, also support cancelling requests before they are scheduled, eliminating the need for a `sleep` in a test case.
The current implementaiton leaks tiny amounts of memory if a request is cancelled after if finishes. I think this is fine because it is a pretty nieche case and the leaked memory is pretty small (a `std::map` entry pointing to a `std::function` + `bool`). Alternatively, we could require the client to always dispose of the cancellation token manually.
