The macro tests were all using "REQUIRES: OS=macosx" as a proxy for
"have the Swift Swift parser". There was an existing feature for this,
but it was just checking whether the path was passed through. Fix that
to use the same variable as in CMake.
Also remove all extraneous `-I` and `-L` to the host libs in the target
invocations.
Errors that were thrown out of a macro implementation were being
emitted and then lost. The result of this is a SILGen assertion later
on, if there were no other errors in the code.
Make sure we properly emit these diagnostics through the source
manager, which required fixing an issue in the offset computation used
for diagnostics.
