I had optimistically written the code here optimistically hoping #7837 would land in time for me to merge, but that didn't happen, so adjust some things to match the current 12-byte object header size on 32-bit, and introduce some ABI constants for the expected 32- and 64-bit object header sizes we can assert against so that we have some robustness when it eventually changes again. Implements rdar://problem/31768303.