Introduce a new source file kind to describe source files for macro
expansions, and include the macro expression that they expand. This
establishes a "parent" relationship
Also track every kind of auxiliary source file---whether for macro
expansions or other reasons---that is introduced into a module, adding
an operation that allows us to find the source file that contains a
given source location.
These libraries formed a strongly connected component in the CMake build graph. The weakest link I could find was from IDE to FrontendTool and Frontend, which was necessitated by the `CompileInstance` class (https://github.com/apple/swift/pull/40645). I moved a few files out of IDE into a new IDETools library to break the cycle.
