In the future, we will remove the UseClangFunctionTypes language option, but we
temporarily need the scaffolding for equality checks to be consistent in all
places.
Since the two ExtInfos share a common ClangTypeInfo, and C++ doesn't let us
forward declare nested classes, we need to hoist out AnyFunctionType::ExtInfo
and SILFunctionType::ExtInfo to the top-level.
We also add some convenience APIs on (AST|SIL)ExtInfo for frequently used
withXYZ methods. Note that all non-default construction still goes through the
builder's build() method.
We do not add any checks for invariants here; those will be added later.