Rename `-enable-cas` to `-compile-cache-job` to align with clang option
names and promote that to a new driver only flag.
Few other additions to driver flag for caching behaviors:
* `-compile-cache-remarks`: now cache hit/miss remarks are guarded behind
this flag
* `-compile-cache-skip`: skip replaying from the cache. Useful as a
debugging tool to do the compilation using CAS inputs even the output
is a hit from the cache.
