Instead, only reference count the SyntaxArena that the RawSyntax nodes
live in. The user of RawSyntax nodes must guarantee that the SyntaxArena
stays alive as long as the RawSyntax nodes are being accessed.
During parse time, the SyntaxTreeCreator holds on to the SyntaxArena
in which it creates RawSyntax nodes. When inspecting a syntax tree,
the root SyntaxData node keeps the SyntaxArena alive. The change should
be mostly invisible to the users of the public libSyntax API.
This change significantly decreases the overall reference-counting
overhead. Since we were not able to free individual RawSyntax nodes
anyway, performing the reference-counting on the level of the
SyntaxArena feels natural.
Instead, reference count the SyntaxData's parent. This has a couple of
advantages:
1. We eliminate a const_cast that was potentially unsafe
2. It more closely resembles the architecture on the Swift side
3. It has the potential to be optimised further if the parent can be
accessed in an unsafe, non-reference-counted way
